The 3 Horrible Words That We Tell Ourselves: ‘Not Good Enough.’

Let me discuss the thing that is always at the back of our heads and continues to come to the front of our heads to bother us. No matter what we may dream of, whether it be acting, singing, dancing, writing, or even something different.

Why do we hurt ourselves by saying these horrible things?

Why do we believe others’ terrible words?
Why do we let others decide that we’re not “good enough”?

Well, I say that…

You decide who and what you are going to be. You do what you love and you don’t listen to those who tell you if you’re ‘not good enough.’
Find your heart’s desire and passion and go for it. No matter how many people tell you that you can’t do it.
Walt Disney didn’t make it on the first try. His animation business bankrupt and he became homeless before he accomplished what he has.
J.K. Rowling was practically almost homeless while she tried to raise her daughter, and was rejected by so many publishers for her beloved books.
Marilyn Monroe was told that she should just give up and be a secretary. Now she is one of the most remembered Hollywood actresses and icons in the world.

Jenna Louise Coleman was rejected from the Royal Academy of Dramatic Arts and look where she is, she has just finished her time on Doctor Who, which is a ONCE IN A LIFETIME thing. And it boosted her career and she did A FABULOUS JOB!

Doctor Who the show itself was built on failure after failure. They had the crappiest budget, but they had an idea and one of the first (i’m not sure if it was producer or director, correct me if I’m wrong.) female directors for the BBC started that show in 1963. Now that’s pretty fab.

Actors are rejected every day, and we never hear about it.
All of them have been told that they “would never make it because they don’t have the guts, talent, etc.” but they showed the world that they could.
I’ve been told by my High School choir teacher that I was stupid, repeatedly in front of the class. Every day. And people wonder why I don’t sing in choirs anymore. It’s because I was told the words “Lindsay has a great voice, but she’s too stupid to do anything with it.”

I’ve been rejected by schools all over the US and the U.K. to Acting and musical theatre programs.

Sometimes I lose hope, but then I remember how other people have succeeded. They had to take lots and lots of rejections, and they had to fail over and over again.
And I still wonder if I am good enough?
And now, i ask myself this why have I let others do this to me for so long?
Because it hurts.
Because words are more powerful than anything else.
They can break hearts, they can encourage, enrage and they can destroy.
Be careful with words.
Be careful with actions but,
Be brave with your dreams.
Because words can hurt so much, you need time to recover and when you recover, realize that you need to work harder to prove those who said that” you could not do it” wrong.
Don’t let anyone dismiss your hard work, ideas, or even just yourself as “not good enough”, because you are good enough.

Please. Please Please.

Understand that.

As the lovely Sierra Boggess once said “You are enough, you are SO ENOUGH. It is UNBELIEVABLE how ENOUGH you are.”

Thanks for reading.

Catch you later,

Lindsay 🙂

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Are You Emotionally Ready for Supernatural to Return?

I decided to make this post out of my feelings, I am NOT EMOTIONALLY READY FOR DOCTOR WHO TO BE BACK BECAUSE I’M NOT OVER MATT YET I MEAN LOOK AT THIS THIS SCENE WAS EVERYTHING BUT OKAY:

I mean I was okay with Capaldi and BAM “HEY CLARA HELP HIM, I MISS YA AND LOVE YA GOODBYE.” Not okay.

Anyway, supernatural. Let’s see if you are diagnosed with severe feelings.

1. Do you cringe when you hear the word demon in Church, School, or anywhere for that matter, and then cry because well you know what happened.

2. Was this your reaction to the Comic Con preview that went on Tumblr?

or was this your reaction?

Yeah or somewhere between there.

3. Did you suddenly start sobbing because SAM AND DEAN WILL NEVER BE HAPPY BROTHERS EVER AGAIN?

4. Are you less social that you were before because no one you know cares about your feelings for this TV show?

5. OR DO YOU SOB WITH YOUR FRIENDS IN HARMONY.

6. Do you dread waiting for October but then you just don’t want it to come because you’re scared of dying from feels?

7. Does this post torture you?